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The Real Life Impact Of Superstition

Thursday, April 22nd, 2010

You may not give superstition a lot of though. The farthest you may go with this topic is reading your horoscope occasionally. You are a practical kind of person who looks for real explanations for life’s situations. On the other hand, you may know some of your friends who take this issue very seriously.

Some people will not budge or start their day without their nickel free charm. If they begin their day without it, it can be a serious impairment on their ability to perform their daily tasks! Likewise, you will find the faithfully devoted in bowling alleys, work places, and bingo halls that simply feel like they can not perform without a particular trinket. Their superstitious belief may also revolve around a particular ritual as opposed to an item.

So, for the many people who believe in good luck charms religiously how do they work? Will a good luck charm really help you get involved with personal training, like you always dreamed of? Or if you’re not aiming so far as to bringing good luck your way, maybe you just want to ward off bad luck, is this really possible?

Whether you believe in superstition or not, these rituals have been around for centuries. Although human kind may have condensed their rituals, they have gone from cave drawings to lucky charms. Or sacrifices to the gods have changed into becoming a particular shirt that is worn to every game to bring good luck

Some people may know in their minds that carrying a particular charm, or using the same golf club will not show you how to break 80 magically, but it’s an emotional attachment. It is a person who wants to take control in situations where there are too many outside factors to be in complete control.

This emotional response to superstition can help put a person in a positive state of mind. Staying positive can impact your performance in real terms. Being positive can enhance mental and physical performance, regardless of what it is that gets you into this positive state of mind. Even if it is a particular ritual you do before a game or a charm you wear.

These superstitious charms or rituals are made important by the person doing them because it gives them self-confidence. It gives them confidence that they are going to win. They are going to achieve because good luck is on their side. Thinking this way will push someone to take the proper steps in achieving a particular goal. Once achieved, is it really the charm, bracelet or ritual that help win? Or was it really the positive state of mind the person was in?

The Secret To My Golf Game

Thursday, April 15th, 2010

There are people who are new to the game of golf, taking it up every day. One of the first things they will do, is find someone who has some experience, and ask for a few tips to help them. The hunt for tips continues throughout your golfing career. I could listen to the old timers for many hours at a time as they explain the way they see and do things on the course. I have added many things from some of their experiences to my own game.

This realization did not come to me right off. It was years before I found it. Before finding it, I tried everything I could read about or be told about. I struggled through with trial and error. I gained a lot of experience. I even went as far as to pay for personal training from an instructor. But I could still feel in my gut that something was missing to my game.

I entered a lot of tournaments, and I faired quite well in some, and I also tanked in a few. But I had determination, which is a quality that all golfers must have. Another of my friends recommended his best golf instruction book which I read and took to heart. And while I learned a few things, I still was not satisfied deep in my gut. I was still searching.

I felt inside that whatever I was searching for, would give me that extra needed edge. A new vein of confidence that just was not there. In my mind I was almost obsessed with it, trying to bring it to the front of my brain where I could finally see it, and add it in with all my other knowledge, and be the golfer I desired to be. I played the toughest courses, in order to gain skills some others may lack.

I finally got to a point where my game just stayed at about the same level. I went up some, and down some, but generally stayed around the same level of ability. I was getting stale, and a little discouraged. I laid awake nights trying to figure out what it was I felt I was missing. But nothing came to me. I figured maybe I was as good as I was going to get.

Days went by, tournaments came and went, and my game averaged out about the same. I decided to try to stop thinking about it so much. To get it out of my head. Just let it go. Then I was some kids playing on the sidewalk, and it hit me. I knew instantly it was the missing key I had been searching for. It was so simple, but so powerful.

They reminded me of when I was a little boy, and the kids I played with. We always had a lucky charm of some sort with us. I watched them making their wishes, and I knew then exactly what the missing ingredient was. It was belief. I went to a tournament the very next day, and before I hit the first ball, I raised my rhodium plated wedding ring up to my lips, gave it a kiss, and turned in the best performance of my career.

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